Being normal...

A very major question that haunts the human mind a lot of time. it ruthlessly attacks them in the shower , while shopping , while watching a boring daily soap, while combing the hairs, even sometimes while making out.... yeah the question is M I NORMAL?????

last night when i put of the lights of my small dingy room , closed my eyes to sleep .BAMM sleep said a "no..." AGrrr... whats next , so i sat up , put on my thinking caps n yeah tried to analysize and joth down some points which might be called as the definition of being normal !!! it was at that time that bright red book allured me with itz real stricking (dazzling infact) cover . and see what i found ............... i found the definition of being normal right there...

"So here goes some deep thought points or rather instances when on i said to be normal"

1) Normal is anything that makes us forget who we r or what we want, it motivates us to produce and reproduces and simply earn money

2)Setting up real set of rules and regulation  for wagging wars

3)Studying years @ the university , struggling hard only to find out at the end that you r unemployable

4)Working form 9 to 5 in a day that gives you no pleasure at all so that just after 30 yrs you can retire and sit back @home

5)Retiring and discovering that you have no more energy left in you to enjoy life and u r dying in few yr out of sheer boredom

6)using botox

7)beliveving that power is much more important that money and money is much more important that happiness

8)Making fun of anyone who is seeking happiness instead of money , and accusing them of not being ambitious.

9)Never talking to stangers

10)believeing that your parents r always right

11)Getting married, having  childern and staying together long after LOVE has all died.

12)Waking up every moring to a hysterical alarm clock by ur bed side.

13)believeing absolutely anything that appears in print

14)Wearing that scrap of coloured cloth around your neck which has no apparent meaning except an answer to "tie"

15)Never asking a direct question even when the other person know what is it that u want to know

16)Keeping that fake smile on ur lips even when ur on the verge of tear (very applicable to females i guess)

17)Believing that Art is either worth a fortune or worth nothing at all

18)Despising anything that is easy to achieve

19)Following fashion trends blindly no matter how ridiculous it may be

20)Believeing that all famous ppl have tons of saved money

21) investing a fortune on extenal beaty while not caring at all about the internal one

(who long will ur external beauty last.. Oley says " ageing starts as early as 25 .. n i believe we all r 21 by nw... 4 mores yrs..!!!!* scared*)

22)Using all means to show that although u r just another ordinary person but u r far above the other mortals

23)Nevrer looking at anyone in the eyes while travelling in public transport, scared of the fact that it may be asumed that u may be paasing out signs *fishy*

24)Standing facing the door in the lift , pretending that u r the only person standing ,regardless the crowd

25)never laughing too loudly in the resturant , no mater how good the joke was

26)always dress accoring to the season bare arms in spring (no matter hw cold) and woolen jackets in autum ( no matter how worm)

27)Going to a charity tea party , assuming u have done to bit in abolishing inequality

28)Eating 3 times a day even if u r not hungry .

29)believeing that other ppl r better than u , so be confined in ur own conjested domain

30)using ur car as a weapon ( hope i need not explain)

31)swearing when in heavy traffic

32)believeing whatever ur spoucse does is only and souly because of his company. (* sponce includes ur boyfirnd and girlfnds)

33)Marying the person who gives u a decent position in the society ( love can wait )

34)Posponding doing the real intersting things in life for the later phrase , when you really dont have tym.

35)avoidind depresssion with daily dose of television , movie, drink and yeah "weed*

36)Assuming women dont lyk football and men hate cooking and home decoration

37)blaming the government for all the bad things that has happend

38)thinking that a decent sober ,and respected person means u r weak , vulnarable and easy to manipulate

39)being convined that aggreesion and rudeness are synomys of a "powerful personality"

40)Being afraid of endoscopy( if a man) and giving birth (if a woman)

Now, done ..yeah the list is over for now..coz if i write more u will starts cursing for wasting ur precious tym whic u would have otherwise spend sleeping , watching some same old feakd out movie or even better talking nonsense to some random girl or guy over the phone:P:)

so , u see .. 9 out of every 10 person we meet r actually normal... so next tym anyone calls u abnormal..FORWARD THIS LINK TO THEM)  

*CHEERS TO LIFE*

- AMRITA SARKAR...

When East Meets West:

“ The dazzling thunder, pricking rains used to drive him crazy , late night parties , getting high , speeding up on the beach were the definition of his life ..while an interesting article in the front page of p3, a weird social venture and  hard earned success brought that wide smile in her face .

He said “ ..its  the finals today….get some pop corn na” she said “ wait a minute !! let me get done with this Email”.

He loved laughing,while she preserved her smiles for god know what , for him every moment was life ..for her moments made life.

 Poles apart emotionally.., psychologically with not a single point to bind them together,

They decided to fall in love with each other.

NO!!! Never ..this wasn’t any experiment for any one of them, they genuinely felt love and desire to be together . Stand by each other and love  like any other couple you come across when you sit in the corner chair of the Café or the cinema theater.

They decided to love each other and understand each others need just like they  saw George Clooney doing in his movies.

But  this was real life!!!!!!!!!

“why not??? Don’t you love me??? U remember how much you used to prioritize me in my hour of need … ” ,” yes!! This is love !! we both know this so there wont be any trouble in future” He said

“ yeah!!! You r right … I can handle this , so what we cannot agree on a single point , so what out taste differs like tsunami and sandstorm. So what you cannot understand my worries ..i can make up for that. After all life is never meant to be perfect” she thought , smiled and hugged him saying “ I don’t care !! All I know is I love you”

But the major question put forward by life to them was …was this  beginning of a love story ..or a tale of brutal hate,

once in a while..

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there,to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be possibly your roommate, neighbor, professor, long lost friend, lover, or even a complete stranger), but when you lock eyes with them, you know at that very moment they will affect your life in some profound way.And sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful, and unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength, willpower, or heart.

Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness, and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, whatever they may be,
life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. It would be safe and comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless.

The people you meet who affect your life, and the success and downfalls you experience, help to create who you are and who you become. Even the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact, they are probably the most poignant and important ones.

If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because in a way, they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.

Make every day count...

Appreciate every moment and take from those moments everything that you possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people that you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Let yourself fall in love, break free, and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, it will be hard for others to believe in you. You can make of your life anything you wish.

Create your own life and then go out and live it with absolutely no regrets.
Most importantly, if you love someone tell them, for you never know what tomorrow may have in store. And learn a lesson in life each day you live.

the last call..

Today, I have set my soul free.
My soul has awaken me,
from a long journey of emotions that
i can't bear anymore.
Today, I found myself looking into
that crystal ball of dreams and hopes
that have been shattered so long ago.
I asked myself why have
i allowed you to hurt me for so long,
in so many ways that you could never see or
feel the suffering that my soul has felt.
I thought I was strong enough to change you but
the only person I was changing was myself
I thank you for this long journey
because you made me stronger
to accept that is time
to let you go and to accept that
things will never changes
I finally see that after this long journey

ThaT luSh gREEn nITe

young lovemaking ..that gossamer web
even that point it clings to--- the thing whence
itzz subtle interlacing are swing are scarcely perceptible

momentary touches of fingertips
meeting of rays from the blue and dark forbs

unfinished phrases
lightest changes of cheeks and lips
faintest tremous

the web itself is made of spontaneous belief and indefinable joys

yearning of one life towards another
vision of completeness and indefinable trust...........

do u call it a mistake..??

Do emotions come under the category of mistakes?? Is the desire to be loved by the most important person of your life a mistake. Is looking for comfort a unforgivable crime?

Is loving someone in whom u have found solace a crime for which u r defied and outcasted. If yes then its rite whatever happened in to me was deserving but if no if somewhere it is right to fall in love , if it is right to demand u r love to give u some moments of his life , if it right to chose if any person u want to be with , whom you can connect to then I m right . I m a mortal human no free from folies buh then I m not wrong ,I m not wrong to lean on the person I want to , I am so correct buh then y m I soo wronged. Why is everything taken from me without any fault of mine , why at the end of the day itz me who stands all alone . why do I cry when I the same person had asked others not to shed tears on meaningless issues?

Why do I stand helpless stranded in ths planet with  girth of support deadly shaken in an unknown earthquake.

I don’t know the reason , nethier do the two other people associated knows, nor anyone  in this universe had any idea , u r simply surrounded by emptiness thouh u have a crowd following u

U r facebook account shows more than 200 fnds , u linked links r pretty huge, u old desolate orkut still had more than 300 fnds n more than 50 fans to flaunt.buh when u look back u hardly see a a hand waiting to hold yours. No one to support u when u stagger. Just u r  there all alone .

THE HORIZON....

Life guess wats is it????...life is eternal, love its immortal devoid of of the physical distance just a pure connection of two immortal souls.... and death ..it is only the horizon.

i was standing in the seashore watching the snow white waves against the silvery blue of the sky, and there at a far distance i saw a ship spreading her white sails to the morning breeze and there starting for its destination "the blue ocean".she is an object of beauty and strength..she represented the the powerhouse atlas bearing the weight which wants to cross the infinite ocean. i stood and watched her until at length she became a speck of white cloud on the horizon.just at that point where the sea and the ocean merges into one.

just then someone standing next to me " hey there shes gone"
GONE?? "GONE WHERE???"
its just that shes gone from my sight.. that is all.she is just as large in most and hull and spar when she left my side. And she is just as able to bear her load of living freight to her destined part .she has diminished in size for me, not for herself

and just at that when ssomeone on my side say "hey shes gone"...there the other eyes watching her coming says "heyy here she comes"

and thats dying...the person just goes away from ur vision buh emerges for someone one else who need her more than you(.might be)....
our loved ones never dye they just go to some other ppl who needs them more..coz they are indeed the most needed poeple in this entire universe


{ i know u are there wid someone else very alive ,smiling as u always did with me}